TRIVALENCE

Regret is part of life. It is an evidence that you exist; an evidence that you are truly human. It signifies that you have conscience. And no human, no matter how brutal they might be is without conscience. Conscience can never be killed; it can only be suppressed. Cogito ergo sum – Rene Descartes Translation: I think therefore I am Conscience is our silent soul but the number one  noise maker in the class of integrity – Trivalence There are two kingdoms of regrets, depending on the way the regret is being handled: 1.        Hell of regret and 2.        Heaven of regret. HELL OF REGRET This is the kingdom of regret most people find themselves. Its population and predicted future immigrant exceed that of regrets heaven by more than 1000%. Folks in this kingdom have no reason of being thankful for those things that got them there in the first place. They are the best candidate to vie for the post of...

To hibernate simply means to be inactive for some period of time due to certain factors. In life, to succeed you must learn to hibernate; not just to hibernate but know when to. A fish never hibernates in the raining season - mud fish know the dry season is the right time to get deep into the mud to hibernate. Whenever you generate a great idea you would like to execute, don't dash straight to its execution; get hibernated. At this time, even your friends might think you are unserious. But this is the time for you to strategize. One of my mentors Mark Cuban illustrated one of this hibernation scenario ''...Nothing  but  the  best  as  I prepared  for  my journey into  entrepreneurial  territory  again. I  could  say I was  preoccupied  with how  to  get  my new business  off  the  ground,  that  while  my friends  got  drunk,  did stupid  tourist...

The three looks alike but they are distinct. The question is which is most important. In my blog post how to produce many , I differentiated success and achievement. No game technique is called success or achievement; the only have seen is goal in soccer. Success and achievement are just a grading system; goal is the main thing. Others are win, victory, failure, attempt, and almost. People don’t go out to watch their team win a game, they only go out to watch the match and desire to win. Their team goes out to play the game with the desire or determination to win. Without the game, there can never be a desire or determination. Goal is the game, success and achievement are the results. Before success and achievement. There is always the goal. And after success and achievement there will always be the goal. Success and Achievement are just a trophy while the rest such as failure and almost are the sanctions. They train you to know how to always win the trophy. Never be discoura...

Productivity is the measure of products turn out. All human beings are production machine and their achievement/success is the measure of the total number of life they impacted in their lifetime. All rich men or savvy entrepreneurs as I like to refer them found a problem and provided the solution; thus paid for finding solution to such problem. There is no rule of nothing for something in life. Nature is a great and wise negotiator. You only win a contract you worth and not the one you wish. To know a true leader, check out his/her successor. If the successor is worse, then you have your answer, you have just discovered another manager, not a leader. Managers never allow a better person to succeed them; leaders build better successor to succeed them. Until you start producing better people than yourself; success is inachievable. There is a difference between success and achievement. Achievement is meeting the goal – success is joyously reaching the goal and being happy afterwar...

A lot of mistakes could be avoided if the future consequences is being considered. I was rushing home one day and was feeling like releasing my excretory system of the fecal matter in my anus. The more I run to get home faster, the more the agony of this need increases. It got to a point I thought of finding a bush to ease myself, then something occurred to me - five minutes mistake, a lifetime regret. What if in the process of doing so, someone I know passes by, or a girl I have been wooing saw me in this silly act? Come on, you need to get home to do this. And this pain will be a story someday. Of course, it did became a story; I just shared it with you! Five minutes mistakes are mistakes that happened within the duration of 5 minutes, it can be lesser but never more than that. And of course, all mistakes happen within this time frame. What did you regret most in your life? What did you wish you had done that you still regret not doing? Things you wish you had never done ...