Bottled Emotion
Emotion is the name we give to our behaviour. Behaviour is the name people give our actions. For every action, there was an issued command. And every issued command is a response to every received action. Whenever anyone, be it your boss, parent or friend vent on you their anger, always know and remember -- the anger is not for you. It wasn't your fault, you only triggered their brain by your behaviour. You made their brain remembers a certain thing which they are unconscious of too. Take for example, you boss's wife who he really loves, cares and could kill for, was discovered to be involved in extramarital affair the night before. Your boss has been thinking of this throughout the night. He didn't yelled at the wife throughout the night -- he was nodding YES throughout the night as his wife was begging . On getting to work the next day, you went unknowingly to his office to demand for a raise in your salary. You know him so well he would be glad to give you the raise